Savage Side of Selfies

By Maryam Hedayat


Those were the days we had to depend upon others for clicking a single photo, and that too was taken on some special occasions.

As technology advanced, photography got easier. Now we have a number of ways and means to get photos clicked. Every single moment is captured in no time.

However, the most innovative technique in style of photography in modern time is the selfie trend. Perhaps people are almost crazy about.

A selfie is a self-portrait photo, usually taken with the front camera of mobile held in the hand.

Selfies are very often shared on social networking sites such as Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.

Who does not like to be appreciated or admired? But being obsessive to go to any extent just to get compliments is something abnormal.


When the “likes” and “comments” come in large numbers on our carefully selected selfies, it is like satisfying our inner self-image which is immeasurable.

In fact, selfie is not just a normal shot. People who frequently take selfies usually try to show themselves at their best.

Some people I personally know, whenever they wear a new dress a selfie click is immediately posted on Facebook.

‘More than a million selfies are taken each day’, according to a research by

It is now a word in the dictionary and the 2013 word of the year. Selfies are today’s generation’s preferred mode of self-expression because they draw attention.

Nothing to surprise that the majority of selfie addicts are female. Women are much more concerned with their looks than men are.

However, women and men equally are obsessed with the selfie craze because it can often give them the reassurance that they have other people’s stamp of approval.

It is believed that individuals who frequently post selfies try to struggle with low self-esteem. And by posting their modified selfies, they try to overcome or hide their shallowness in life.

People are even getting surgery just to have the perfect selfie. It might not be long before our obsession with selfies soon evolve from being a vanity issue to a mental health issue.

It has been found that individuals who frequently post selfies on sites such as Facebook, Twitter and Instagram, are more likely to be narcissistic and are often objectives of self-admiration.

According to the study published in the journal, “Personality and Individual Differences”, “Narcissism is most commonly associated with vanity…This phenomenon becomes an issue when taking and documenting one’s self portrait becomes a daily routine.”

Researchers also reveal that self-objectification may be a bigger problem for individuals than previously thought.

Apart from, selfie being more than a trend is now becoming a threat to people’s life these days. It is becoming a leading cause of death among youngsters.

People who have attempted dangerous acts for having the best and unique selfies and died or injured in the meanwhile are in the age group of 13-30, most statistics reveal.

A psychology professor at the University of Florida warns, people are taking increasing risks just to get an unusual shot of themselves.

Tragically in one extreme case of the disorder, a British teenager Danny Bowman tried to commit suicide because he was unsatisfied with his appearance in the selfies he took.

He was so desperate to attract girls, he spent 10 hours a day taking more than 200 selfies trying to find the perfect image, but his awkward habit, risked his own life.

Likewise, a Polish tourist in Spain fell off a bridge and died attempting to take a distinctive selfie.

Numerous deaths have been caused by distracted photo-takers falling off cliffs, crashing their cars, being hit by trains, and even shooting themselves while posing with guns.

Obviously the best selfie posted, the numerous likes and comments are not going to change the reality of life in anyway.

In fact, by regularly trying to show people online our best, sometimes, takes us towards the fake world of fantasy. And in process of maintaining that fake online status we feel the death of compassion in ourselves. As Albert Einstein said: “It has become appallingly obvious that our technology has exceeded our humanity.”

The Article published in The Milli Gazette, New Delhi, September 01-15, 2016.




Categories: Maryam Hedayat, Selfie

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